The Grass Doctor

please help CPS abducted our duaghter?

One of my neighbors called cps. a social worker who clearly showed dislike, and sherrif deputy came. found a dirty house but nothing unsanitary just the regular. found a weed bong that up in closet that had not been used for months. arrested my wife and my self, and took my duaghter. she is two. felony child endangerment. we were released from jail 2 days later no charges filed. we missed intial hearing and than went to family court hearing. it said in hearing we were meth addicts, cared for child under ininfluence of drugs, found shot gun in childs reach ( they found a 22 rifle that was discarded in lawn the officer said it showed up as a destroyed weapon which is scary email me ekev16@yahoo.com for more info i need help. said we could not provide adaequate clothing for our child but she has tons of cloths some brand new. I used meth 5 months prev the last time after losing my job and im 5 months clean on prop 36. my wife does not use drugs. tried one time in the past and did not like. we have both passed drug tests. it does not make sense. please advise. one of the attorneys assigned to my wife happens to be the father of two guys i did not get along with and managed at the company i worked last. my public defender wont return calls. the social worker told us we need to let our house go into forclosure and take 6 month in house rehab. which is the same PD told my wife. Please help we just had first visitation with our daughter and she clearly has a adults stress in her face, and flinchs when we make qick movements. no one will listen i do not now what to to. we cry every day and do not understand why this has happend. it seems we are alone and no one can help us.

Public Comments

1. I can say from experence you are in for a fight as it happened to me dont miss court and make your house spotless i wish youluck
2. I am truly sorry for what has happened to you and much more to what your daughter is going thru. But don't feel as you are alone because you are not...always have faith in God because everything happens for a reason and this might be God's way of testing you knowing that you are strong enought to survive this. I truly believe all you say its true that you havent used drugs in the past few months. You need to stay stong and sane for the sake of your child, she does not understand what is going on unfortuantelly but when you do have a chance to visit make sure you explain to her that everything is going to be ok and all that is happening has been a misundestaning. Ask her as well to pray while you guys do so as well. Many times we dont understand God's purpose and most likely you must be thinking is the last thing you want to hear about God right now but when the storm calms down (and it will) you will be thankful to God that you survived this challange. God is preparing you for something good always remember never give up because he dont give us anything we are not capable of supporting. This will make you stronger and you will as well realize and appreciate things that you didnt used to before. May God Bless you and be with you and your daughter. In times of weakness talk to God and put everything in his hands and he will show you that he has taken care of all this even from before it happened. All he is asking is for your faith and for you to say "Lord I can't do this alone I surender all to you" and he will listen because he have humbled yourself. Again God Bless you!!!!
3. dont miss any hearings! even if your lawyer says you dont need to be there. if your daughter is two and you used meth 5 months ago... you arent a fit parent. i know, everyone makes mistakes but thats what cps is there for. if you have issues with drugs or alcohol you need to stop what your doing and straighten yourself out. obviously your concerned for your daughters wellbeing. cps will help your get the help you need. you need to accept that what they are doing is in your daughters best interest. you admit that you have problems so take the time right now and get yourself together. bottom line... just cooperate and let cps know that you will do anything and everything to smarten up and get your daughter back.
4. I hate to be the one to break this to you, but if your child flinches when you make quick movements toward her then she is in the right place with CPS. You had a 22 rifle on your lawn!! It was listed as destroyed!! How about illegal possession of a firearm. You have had this happen because someone was worried about the child. You had paraphernalia and weapons in reach of a 2 year old, what the heck were you thinking!? You will need to take parenting classes and most likely do monthly drug testing, have only supervised visitation and have heavy restrictions placed on you.
5. these people really believe they know whats better for your child than you do. If we could only see what goes on in their lives we would be shocked-but that of course is not allowed because they are the ones that make the rules. They love their power and cannot wait to exercise it again. It fulfills them. You are screwed.